BMJD is a rockstar. She lives in Africa and is in the Peace Corps. Senior year of college, we all watched her jump through a gazillion bureaucratic hoops for admission/clearance. After all that, she’s finally there! She is a huge inspiration to me–if she can go all the Africa, I can go to Arizona, right?!
I wrote her a letter this morning (look for it in the mail, BMJD!) and then checked her blog to get the address. Much to my surprise, there was a new post! That got me thinking about technology and blogging and letter writing and connectedness.
Blogs are not foreign to me. I read The Pioneer Woman, Annie’s Eats, Ali Edwards, and Jasmine Star every morning, right before with The New York Times and Huff Po. But having my own blog? That’s a whole different story. I feel presumptuous even writing one, as if my life is interesting enough to need/want a blog.
A couple nights ago I wrote in my journal, “Most important to me: family and friends and staying connected through these changes.” I think this blog will be one way to do that, and to document my life along the way.
In honor of that sentiment, here’s a smorgasbord of some of my favorite culinary creations, people, places, and events from the past few weeks.
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smor⋅gas⋅bord [smawr-guh
s-bawrd, -bohrd or, often, shmawr-]
1. a buffet meal of various hot and cold hors d’oeuvres, salds, casserole dishes, meats, cheeses, etc.
2. an extensive array or variety
Origin: 1915–20; < Sw smörgsbord, equiv. to smörgs sandwich + bord table
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(Luke, that was for you, in honor of your English Shades of Meaning project)
Easter Sunday with my wonderful, pastel-colored family:

A trip to Crofton, Nebraska for a party/barn dance celebrating JEMS’s parents’ 25th wedding anniversary. Yeah for the Jitterbug!! (And HAPPY BIRTHDAY today, JEMS!!)

Working in the afternoon/evening means that I have free time in the mornings. A perfect morning now involves a cup of tea, Pandora, and a good recipe. Here’s one of my latest favorites: PESTO! (recipe from The Des Moines Register)

Visits with friends! TSTD came to D-town over Easter and ERG was in O-town last weekend. Explored the new IA/NE pedestrian bridge, made/ ate good food, gave RET a pep-talk about his upcoming MCAT, and enjoyed lots of laughs and updates on each others’ lives. Yeah for good friendships!
(which are good for our health, according to this article! Favorite quote from that article: And notably, proximity and the amount of contact with a friend wasn’t associated with survival. Just having friends was protective.)

And last but not least, lately I’ve been volunteered as a chauffeur for my brothers. I can’t complain too much, though, because it means I’ve gotten to hang out with them. Most recently: a college visit with Luke. (who was oh-so-excited that I wanted to document our day with lots of photos!)

Here’s another quote from that article I mentioned before:
Last year, researchers studied 34 students at the University of Virginia, taking them to the base of a steep hill and fitting them with a weighted backpack. They were then asked to estimate the steepness of the hill. Some participants stood next to friends during the exercise, while others were alone.
The students who stood with friends gave lower estimates of the steepness of the hill. And the longer the friends had known each other, the less steep the hill appeared.
“People with stronger friendship networks feel like there is someone they can turn to,” said Karen A. Roberto, director of the center for gerontology at Virginia Tech. “Friendship is an undervalued resource. The consistent message of these studies is that friends make your life better.”
Pretty cool, huh? So thankful for my friends, both near and far!!